Becca

1. Don’t work so hard at keeping a “friend” when you know deep down they wouldn’t work half as hard to keep you.
2. Expect friends to change, and hope that they do for the better.
3. Don’t give your heart away to someone before they give you their’s.
4. If he says you’re his favorite/everything, make sure he really means it before you believe it.
5. Listen to your gut, no matter what you may think in the moment. 99.9% of the time, your gut knows best. That .1% is for a miracle and I have yet to experience one.
6. That annoying voice in your head telling you it’s not a good idea…isn’t joking.
7. When you’re in a best friendship (meaning you’re best friends) everything you do for them should be mirrored by the other person. If it’s not, I wouldn’t say you’re best friends.
8. Communication is the best way to prove to someone that you trust them and that they can trust you.
9. Don’t expect everyone to feel the same way you do.
10. When you’re feeling like you’re gonna explode with anger and frustration, type or text it all out but NEVER send it. Not everyone wants to deal with confrontation and you just end up getting hurt and feeling like they don’t care.
11. Constantly texting, emailing, or calling a person doesn’t show that you care…it makes them think you want attention.
12. It’s not selfish to think about yourself and your own feelings. Take care of yourself when you feel like you’ve lost control. It means that you’re strong and know what’s best for you. People will respect you for it. 
13. It’s okay to cry and don’t let anyone tell you differently.
14. There’s a reason you meet everyone in your life. Some people are meant to stay, and some are just a temporary visit. It’s important to know the difference.
15. Let things go that you cannot change or reconstruct. Holding onto them won’t put any of the pieces back together when you’ve lost half of the puzzle.
16. Look back at the past and remember, look forward and prepare, look where you are now and think about how you got here and what you’re going to become.
17. Find someone who you know will never fail you, and never let them go.
18. Be the friend and lover that you want to find for yourself.
19. The only person you ever need to impress is you.
20. You’re perfect, because there’s only one me in this world, and I can’t be compared to anyone.

I swear he’s got me on radar…

Just when I decide to block him out, I get a text.

The worst part about being yourself is knowing that no matter how hard anyone tries, no one will ever be able to understand you, except you.

But when you trust someone enough to let them into your heart, it’s the most rewarding feeling you may ever experience.

It breaks my heart to know that some people will never let anyone inside, because for me it has made all the difference.

That I don’t have to chase after.

To you I have been invisible for quite some but I don’t want to start drama anymore. It’s not worth it when I know things will never change.

It’s a terrible thing…
When a girl gets put in the friend zone.

I am kinda tired of girls always saying

“Oh the trouble with girls today is that we give our all to a guy that doesn’t give his half,”
BlahBlahBlahBLAH

Truth is ladies, it takes two to make a relationship.
So if you feel like your relationship isnt going the way you dreamed it would than you should realize that it isn’t just HIM that is the problem.
If a relationship is ever going to be nearly perfect then you BOTH need to be happy…
Maybe your guy isn’t acting the way you thought he would because he isn’t as interested in you as you want him to be. So you’re going to point fingers and whine that he’s the problem?!
Wake up honey, that should be telling you something. He isn’t feeling your relationship either otherwise you’d be getting the attention you want.

I feel for guys, I really do.
They always get the crap and blame whenever a girl is upset.
My boyfriend and husband someday will never be straight up blamed for my unhappiness, should it happen…
Because I must have done something to make him behave the way he does.

So this one is for the guys
There are some girls out there willing to admit that you aren’t always the problem.

Dear People That Think 16 & Pregnant/Teen Mom “glamorizes” teen pregnancy,

If you truly watch the show(s) and decide “hmmm I wanna be just like them, that is so cool,”

you need to see a psychoanalyst.

Stop blaming Maci, Farrah, Amber, Catelynn, Leah, Chelsea, Jenelle, Kailyn, MTV, all the other 16 & Pregnant girls, and the world for your inability to keep penises out of your vagina.

Sincerely,
A 18 year old virgin, yet respectful 16 & Pregnant/Teen Mom fan

I can’t breathe. I’ve never felt so crappy in my entire life.